Fathers Rights in Canada simply don’t exist, that’s right…

Fathers Rights in Canada simply don’t exist, that’s right…

Fathers Rights Don’t Exist!

Fathers Have Rights Too was created to support Canadian fathers who are battling the Corrupt Family Court System, which is destroying hundreds of thousands of helpless Canadian Children.

The Morally Corrupt and Anti-Christian (I’m not Christian) Family Court System in Canada, is set up to destroy families to feed a $6-$7 Billion Year Industry, and it is rotten to the core, from one end to the other, and

Fathers Can’t Protect Their Children

All fathers in Canada have lost their rights to protect their children from harm.

The Corrupt Family Court System in Canada, is facilitating and causing the destruction of families in this country, and has reached epidemic proportions.

From the CAS, the assessment organizations, the Lawyers, and the Family Court Judges, Corruption and Evil Rules and most of the good people, who had the “best interest of the children” as their priority, have been squeezed out, and those that are still in the system are afraid to open their mouths for fear of losing their jobs.

All fathers have been stripped of their rights, by a Family Court System that’s designed to strip them of all their wealth to feed this Multi-Billion-Dollar Monster, at the expense of helpless little children.

The Children Are Paying the Price!

These are hard working families are stripped of their wealth, by Vultures who not only feed on their misery, but whose main purpose is to add fuel to the fire to feed their Greed.

However…

They Have Created a Sleeping Giant

That Sleeping Giant is now estimated to be well Over…

2 Million Strong

PART 2 Parents Rights: Routine violation of the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms

Parental Rights in Canada Part 1

The separation of fathers and children is the worst human rights abuse of our time

Family breakdown Family breakdown has been a nightmare come true for many Canadian fathers. Upon dissolution of their relationship with their spouse, it quickly becomes clear to them that they are now mere wallets for their former family and must give up hope of being real parents to their children. Indeed, for many of them the injustice is too great to bear and they resort to a variety of reactions which we do not hear much about such as alcoholism, dropping out, and suicide, as well as some violent reactions that we do hear about through the media.

Justice for Fathers and Children Ex-fathers know that men need to parent their children. We know that children need their fathers’ parenting. We know that the courts have failed to give justice to fathers and children. We do not sit by quietly while fathers are treated like wallets. We do not accept the indentured status created by maternal support payments.

A better place for all our children This is not to ignore the equally important problems of the children who lose their fathers. Imagine what our boys and young men think of their futures as parents knowing the treatment fathers get? The incidence of problems such as criminal behavior, prostitution, addiction, and teen pregnancy is well known to be extraordinarily high among persons brought up without their fathers.

Justice for fathers and children Ex-fathers is a group of people concerned about and active in correcting the abuse of fathers in marital separation. We believe in Equal Parenting. The changes that result will of course mean that some mothers will have to start to accept certain realities and take on certain responsibilities they have been able to ignore and shirk in the past.  This is as it should be, we must proceed. We believe in restitution for fathers and children.

Who do you turn to? Ex-fathers provides support, education, and leadership for all men who have been or will be deprived of their families and their finances by the family law system. Working together we will conquer the forces trying to keep fathers from families. Ex-fathers is here to help.

Your Spouse is a Sociopath? – 9 Signs the Answer Could Be Yes

There is a certain group within the general population that is afflicted with a personality disorder. Sociopaths/psychopaths (many use the term interchangeably) fall into this category. When many people hear the term “sociopath” or “psychopath,” they imagine a cold blooded serial killer. However, a large percentage of clinical sociopaths may never kill.

However, their wiring is such that they commit many destructive acts that can be very destructive in their interpersonal relationships. If you are involved in a marriage with a sociopath/psychopath, you may well spend time bewildered and hurt over the actions of your partner. While only a licensed mental health professional can diagnose a sociopath, it is helpful to know what signs may be apparent in someone with this disorder. Here are 9 signs of a sociopath:

1. A tendency toward boredom, and a need for risky behavior, regardless of danger to self or others.

2. Lack of guilt and remorse. This is a hallmark of a sociopathic personality. Your spouse may have no conscience in the sense that true guilt and remorse for wrongdoing isn’t experienced. The sociopath may regret getting caught, but often feels he or she was entitled to be hurtful, criminal, or unethical because the victim was weak and therefore “deserved” it.

3. Poor impulse control and behavior. Your partner may have difficulty delaying his or her gratification, and may engage in behaviors such as drug or alcohol abuse, and sexual promiscuity.

4. Consistent lack of responsibility. You spouse may not pay bills on time, or hold down a job, or honor commitments in life.

5. Superficial charm and shallow emotional state. Your spouse may have oodles of charm, but true emotional depth is lacking.

6. Not conforming with “norms” of society. Your partner may think and behave as if the regular rules or laws of society simply do not apply to him or her.

7. Conning, manipulation, and compulsive kinds of lying. Your spouse may even live in a parasitic manner, using you and others for money and other benefits, manipulating to get what he or she wants.

8. Aggressive, possibly violent behavior. This may be evidenced by fistfights or other explosive behavior.

9. A sense of overly inflated self worth. Your spouse may have a sense of superiority over others.

Fathers Supporting Fathers

“I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father’s protection.” — Sigmund Freud

Mothers that do not allow the father’s to see their children

Why is it when so called mothers stop their kids seeing their dads make the dads fight through court to get access and then finally be granted access and the so called mothers just carry on as if nothing as happend, they get away with it!! its the kids that suffer in the long run so why isint justice brought???

I think a child should be allowed to see the father regardless if he is paying child support or not. The child would be deprived of knowing the father. children need both parents and it is unfortunate that the parents can’t get it together and do what is best for the child.

Separated Dads

Keeping a strong relationship

Maintaining a strong relationship with your child even if you’re no longer living in the same house is vital. If you’re in close contact with your child, he’ll recover better from the split, can expect to do better at school, is less likely to get into trouble and will probably have better mental health.

Make peace

The key to successful separated parenting is, ironically, the same as for a successful marriage: a good relationship with your child’s mother.

So, no matter how bad things might have become, concentrate on trying to heal any rifts and try to move to a respectful, supportive post-separation relationship.

Caring for your child

Your living arrangements may have changed and you may be some distance from your child but you’ll still need to create a warm, family atmosphere when he’s with you. Draw on all your resources – family and friends – so you’re not isolated and your partner is reassured about where your child is staying.

Dos and don’ts

Do

• Make sure you are on time when picking up and dropping off
• Help your ex out so that she feels you’re an asset not a nuisance
• Keep up your Child Support payments

 

Don’t

• Use your child to get at your partner
• Say unpleasant things about your ex in front of your children
• Change arrangements to see your child at the last moment

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
JOIN THE THOUSANDS OF OTHER FATHERS IN THIS NIGHTMARE AND FIGHT BACK!MEN’S & FATHERS’ SUPPORT
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IF YOU ARE A MAN OR A FATHER:
• If you are a divorced or separated father who is not being treated fairly by the courts, lawyers, or other professionals.
• If you have been falsely accused or charged by your ex.
• If you are not being given a fair chance at custody or shared parenting.
• If you have been reduced to being just a visitor to your own child.
• If a vindictive mother is interfering with your access to your child.
• If you are having your back broken by unfair support.
• If your basic civil rights are being violated as a father.
  these pages are for you

http://www.canlaw.com/rights/fathers.htm

Using Children as Pay Cheques

More than a decade after a landmark study recommended an overhaul of Canadian divorce law, courts still haven’t caught up to the new reality of Canadian family life. A generation of dads who can’t stand being apart from their children is pushing for change.

When Walter Mueller first walked into the support group, he was asked to draw a picture of his life for the dozen or so men in the room.

Mueller drew three. In each one he was hanging out with his 9-year-old daughter and 8-year-old son – splashing at the family’s cottage, riding bikes, trekking through a theme park. The picture isn’t nearly so pretty for many divorced Dads.

Mueller has seen some pushed to the brink of suicide and financial ruin in their quest to remain a significant part of their children’s lives. He’s heard others complain they’ve been relegated to the role of visitors and virtual ATM machines.

“I was fearful of losing my children – how my life would go on. I didn’t see a light in any tunnel,” says the 45-year-old Whitby dad, whose wife agreed through mediation to let him see his children almost half the time. “I would have spent every nickel, every dime, every penny I own to get to see my children. Money doesn’t matter when it comes to love.”

A decade after Ottawa’s Special Joint Committee on Child Custody and Access recommended an overhaul of Canada’s divorce system – and more equitable child-custody arrangements – fathers still face an uphill battle.

“It’s as bad or perhaps worse now,” says retired MP Roger Gallaway, who co-chaired the committee and its landmark 1998 report, “For the Sake of the Children,” and still gets calls from fathers shocked at their treatment in the family court system.

“Men are still being deprived of their children. The courts have not changed their attitudes all that much.”

Family courts around the world have seen a “dramatic increase” in court disputes launched by divorcing dads determined to see their children more than every second weekend and Wednesday evenings, observes Australian law professor Patrick Parkinson.